I have to think any woman would ultimately want to know that her H had the spine to stand up and fight for her.
High Schoolish but so TRUE! Exhibit your Testosterone!
Going to HR wouldnt be that good of an idea. It would spread throughout the company so quickly, it would be embrassing.
why not. as you said, take a walk over to his office, he already knows who you are but introduce yourself anyway and say, "Hi, I'm H. Mrs. HBH's husband and whatever is going on has got to stop right now." Then walk away before before he begins to act like nothings going on.
I would even add the following: "....It has to stop right now or I'm going to go HR and once they find out, I'll make sure everyone around here knows about it: your boss, your manager and maybe they can help focus more time working than chasing other men's wives"
Does anyone know if this OM is married? If so, there is another opportunity for exposure, the thing about affairs is they lost alot of their excitement when they're found out, the thrill of the affair is that it's secret, even the people in the affair know on some level that it isn't the right thing to do, they feel guilty, not guilty enough to stop but guilty enough to keep it a secret and doing something forbidden has alot of excitement attributed to it.
