I read something that made me think of what you said:
Even if we confine our thinking to this life, it is true that God never touches the heart with a trial without intending to bestow a greater gift or compassionate blessing. The person who knows how to wait has grown to an exceptional degree in God's grace.
When the frosts are in the valley, And the mountaintops are gray, And the choicest blooms are blighted, And the blossoms die away, A loving Father whispers, "This all comes from my hand"; Blessed are you if you trust When you cannot understand.
If, after years of toiling, Your wealth should fly away And leave your hands all empty, And your hair is turning gray, Remember then your Father Owns all the sea and land;
Blessed are you if you trust When you cannot understand.
Hugs, WDID
(from a devotional entitled, "Streams in the Desert")