I have to think any woman would ultimately want to know that her H had the spine to stand up and fight for her.
High Schoolish but so TRUE! Exhibit your Testosterone!
Going to HR wouldnt be that good of an idea. It would spread throughout the company so quickly, it would be embrassing.
why not. as you said, take a walk over to his office, he already knows who you are but introduce yourself anyway and say, "Hi, I'm H. Mrs. HBH's husband and whatever is going on has got to stop right now." Then walk away before before he begins to act like nothings going on.
