Yes, he could take take care of it from Europe, but I don't want him to. If I don't respond, then he will get involved and I don't want him to. He isn't 'calling the shots' just wanting a status report.
I hear what you're saying Gnosis and totally agree that he deserves nothing from me. I'm not doing this for him - I'm doing it for me. But yeah, saying nothing about the candle makes sense.
I am feeling pretty good. I get sad at times, but all in all, having this extended period of time to leave before he knows, is a good departure scenario for me. I appreciate you sharing your man's point of view Gnosis and validating and reminding me how outrageous his behavior is.
