Just wondering about the best way to confront. I need to do it Ina calm cool way so as not to get myself in trouble with HR. I want him to know simply that i know what is going on, that I have concrete evidence, and that I will go to the end fighting for my wife. I will not threaten him with it but I would love to leave him wondering if I am planning to take this to HR. My W will be ticked if I do this, would I be sabotaging my efforts by doing this? I have to think any woman would ultimately want to know that her H had the spine to stand up and fight for her.
