Question for you - is you XW still with the original OM?
Yes, they have been engaged to be married for a bit of year now, BUT, they have a "open relationship" so.........
Anyway, I don't know if the way you post things, or the way I interpret them, but someting seems to not add up.
At this time, like I told you yesterday, get away from it, making my response to your question, I need to walk away for a bit, hang in there, and stop listening to her.
Me 35/XW 33 S13 & S12 M: 10/17/98 OM & S: 07/08 D final 06/09/09 12/03/09 - 06/13/10 "Piercing" 06/13/10: Engaged to Re-marry 10/17/10 06/25/10: Expecting baby #3 2/14/11