Quote: what they're really saying to themselves is "I've breached the most sacred trust imaginable and I can't believe she'd EVER trust or believe in me again and I cannot live with THAT."
It's really THIER insecurity and fears that WE will never really be able to love them again that keeps them at bay it's thier fear of our rejecting them ultimately. They're to confused and conflicted that's it's hard for them to see that for themselves.
It is a fear of mine, also. I'm working so hard on getting him back that I haven't thought past that point. Meaning if he does come back, will all of my true feelings come out and that maybe I won't be able to forgive him? In my heart I have forgiven him, but I know he's afraid of me constantly throwing it his face as I did a lot of that when we were together, so I understand where that fear is coming from, but I know better now.
Quote: NO DAMN CARDS...Loving someone is NEVER having to pay Hallmark to say what's really in YOUR HEART
Your are too funny....you just wrote a Hallmark card. This sounds like that old lady that has her own line of Hallmark cards...