But, she confided in me tonight that she's still uncomfortable sleeping in the same bed with me. I told her that I understood, and that I was willing to switch beds with her before her mother came to visit, but she doesn't want her mom to see how bad things are, I guess?
She said she wanted it to be the way it was, when she could snuggle with me in bed and it felt good. I asked her what she wanted me to do, and she said I could try to snuggle with her tonight.
Way too SUPPLICATING, Trent. I agree with Robx's take, above. You need to be stronger, and to establish firmer boundaries. Your wife very likely doesn't respect you right now, and since women tie their feelings of love VERY closely with their feelings of respect, you can see your problem.
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But, she confided in me tonight that she's still uncomfortable sleeping in the same bed with me. I told her that I understood, and that I was willing to switch beds with her before her mother came to visit, but she doesn't want her mom to see how bad things are, I guess?
As I used to say around here, "Blcccch."
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But, she confided in me tonight that she's still uncomfortable sleeping in the same bed with me.
A: "I'm really sorry you feel that way. Maybe you should move to the guest room."
