But what he REALLY wants to know is CAN YOU REALLY ever forgive him for what he's done.
It took me a year or more to figure that out. When they're telling us that they don't think they can 'go back' to what we had...what they're really saying to themselves is "I have breached the most sacred trust imaginable and I can't believe she'd EVER trust or believe in me again and I cannot live with THAT."
It's really THIER insecurity and fears that WE will never really be able to love them again that keeps them at bay it's thier fear of our rejecting them ultimately. They're to confused and conflicted that's it's hard for them to see that for themselves.
T2
PS NO DAMN CARDS...Loving someone is NEVER having to pay Hallmark to say what's really in YOUR HEART
