You may attempt to maintain a sense of detachment today, but it's easy to get sucked into someone's vortex of complex emotions. Your challenge is to show your interest and compassion without losing your own perspective. Letting down your guard now is tricky business. Your best defensive strategy might be to concentrate as much as you can on your work, without leaving too much time to wander into unknown relationship territory.
WOW
Doc
And if I claim to be a wise man, well It surely means that I don't know
Stuff..... Thanks I will e-mail when I have my thoughts together..
Ya know...has anyone close to you ever died and you cried and cried and cried until you just had no more tears and could not cry anymore????? Well I have thought and thought and thought and now I just don't have any words anymore...not a bad thing or a good thing..my brain is just kind of numb Doc
And if I claim to be a wise man, well It surely means that I don't know
"I won't leave because i just can't mess up my kids lives, and it would be bad finacially if we did leave" By Fight
I HEAR YOU........
Well I think most of the "funk" I was in these last few days was because I was so busy taking care of my uncles cows and stuff and it was great but then when he got back I had nothing to do. W is finely working again on her resume so that is a good thing and I have been getting calls on my firewood so now I will be busy again. I have to admit that things are good. Wife has been nice. I have tried to turn off my emotional side and still be nice just not pursuing. wife actually cleaned our bathroom, (the bathroom in the room we used to share). Now she did not do a great job but I know she hates doing bathrooms. I did thank her last night for doing it but did not make a big deal out of it. I was deciding all day if I should say something or not. She never acknowledges when I clean them. But like I said I did thank her and she smiled and said she did not do a very good job though. I told her I can do the floors when I get some time. She then told me that she has swept the floors but "YOU went in there and some stuff must have fallen off your pants and got all over the floor" I did not bite on that one.. Did not take it personal... did not come back with a smart A$$ remark just kept watching TV...not sure if it is because I have no energy left or maybe I am finely growing up... Take care everyone Doc
And if I claim to be a wise man, well It surely means that I don't know
