The adventure chronicles

[AFWAW]

SHE NO LONGER DESERVES YOUR JUSTIFICATIONS OR RESPONSES, JOHN. She is "done," remember? Her rights to wife-ness ended when she fled your marriage and screwed around with other men.

You're right as always. I had an opportunity to redeem myself the very next day. Phone call from her to my D, then she wants to talk to me. Did you take that woman off your FB? Nope. How come? Didn't want to. Hey, I gotta go, getting ready to eat and hung up. She called back about 10 times and my D answered and asked if she could go out to eat w/ her mom. Sure, no problem. So, the wife comes over and asks my daughter to go wait in the car and she says, can I look at your FB account to see if you're corresponding with this woman. I said, no but you can leave, I'm sure D is hungry. Well, why not. I said, I don't have to justify anything to you, you gave up that right when you moved out and said you were done. On top of that, you are being absolutely unreasonable. She said, listen fu$#er, I don't know who you think you are but I'm moving back in here after my lease is up in Feb 2010 and you can't stop me. I actually laughed at that point which I think really infuriated her and said good luck with that. I said, it's time for you to leave now. She did, but called back about 5 minutes later. I ignored her calls and she left a message apologizing for her behavior and asking if I would go out for coffee later w/ her. There were about 5 more calls after that. I finally answered and she asked again if we could go out for coffee and talk. I said, I don't think so. She pleaded. I said, fine but if we go, there will be no R talk at all. She said, then what will we talk about? I said, how about our daughter. Ok, so I went and it was ok.

Fast forward to next day. She calls and says she knows she's being unreasonable about her request to have me take this woman off FB but she will NEVER be unreasonable about anything else. I laughed again.

Back to life is a party mode. Went out last night to a military function. Lot's of pretty, friendly women every where. Had a great time. I've noticed that when I don't talk to her I have a lot more energy and when I do, it feels like the days are so freaking long.