Having second thoughts....it might easier to put the words in a card? When I have to talk with H face-to-face my words never come out the way I want them to or maybe this should be something I do face-to-face and just really slow myself down and really concentrate on what I'm saying...am I pathetic or what actually this would be a 180 to do it face-to-face.

If this was a friend, I'd have no problems with saying anything, I can talk so much more freely with my friends as they don't take everything so personally and look for the hidden meanings...

Cathy