T2,

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That's exactly the R talk you should have.




Maybe you're right and maybe tonight is the night. He did ask me on Monday if I thougt our "marriage was saveable" so maybe we can revist that question tonight.

You know I really feel like I need to tell him this, I haven't and so maybe this is the "reassurance" he's looking for that can let him relax. And also include the "I will try to still be here if in the end you did decide I am the one you want to be with"

With all the back and forth, cheeseless tunnels, mindreading, assuming, accusations, you said this, you didn't say that, drama of the last few weeks this might be what is needed.
I know that I do look to you all here for my answers and for encouragement and suggestions on what I should do, but this one T2 is the one that feels right in my heart and needs to be said. Can I steal your words??

Thanks T2!!

Cathy