Quote: Other than come right out and say H I'm waiting for you to come home, until then there's really not a lot we can do to work on OR
That's exactly the R talk you should have. If there was a DAY that really became a 'turning point' of real worth in my H's fog....it was the day I told him exactly that.
Somewhere in one of my old posts the conversation is given...but to sum it up....the day I told him that I realized he was confused and unsure of what he wanted and needed in his life and that I loved him and I would be working to make my life better while he worked to find his own answers for HIS life and happiness but that I would 'try' to still be there for him if he found at the end of his search that it was me and our life together that he really needed. It was words to that affect...he cried, he actually thanked me...he was sincere. I think that promise of freindship took the pressure off. Then I stepped back and stopped ALL R talks and every time I saw him after that I WAS like a freind to him...and he began coming around and acting 'better' more often. T2
