So we had an MC session yesterday and I had homework to come up with goals that would demonstrate that our marriage had improved. This is the 1 that I came up with:
"I want to be able converse openly and honestly on any subject with W without fear that it may damage relationship."
She was a little taken back by my goal and became a little defensive about it. Something to the point of "Do you really think that I am that bad?"
I pointed out that this was not her issue, it was mine. It was something that I needed to work on. This response calmed her down. She then said that it is good that our goals line up well. Hers is for us to be more open and honest with each other.
We plan on moving some of the smaller things from her apartment back to our place this weekend. My W says she can't wait to work on our home this weekend. Things are good.
