Bless you Sanderika. Thanks for clarifying the Gucci advice and yes, I now see what he was saying much more clearly - I am a bit too sensitive sometimes and H was justified in always telling me that!

I feel more upbeat and knowing that H is coming by tomorrow has got me to thinking of all the ways in which I am going to behave. I shan't be acting excited - will keep that feeling inside. I shall ask him if he wants to go alone to pick up the garden stuff ... I have chores to do, afterall !!

I shall treat him as though he is a friend who has come around to do some chores for me.

I hope that work goes well Sanderika. I couldn't find your post but asked Cas and she lead me to you. Have posted there. Have a good day at work - yes, it's difficult for us on different continents and in different time zones too! Still, we are the family that prays and stays together so we will be here today and tomorrow - or whenever we are needed.

Take care.


WAH 43; W 47
M 16; T 17
Cats 15 & 6
Bomb 27/05/09
ow 28/06/09

"It is only on the darkest night that we see the stars"

Started counselling 17/08/09