Is this the end of my marriage?

[P17]

But I don't want to make any decisions today.

That's probably best.

IS yours a "fault" state for divorce? CAN you file on the grounds of adultery? Not that you shouldn't still fight for your marriage -- I think you should (and that it's still salvageable) -- but it does change your leverage, and therefore your strategy and tactics.

Puppy

PDT,

I can't see the wood for the trees just now. I have no idea how my marriage can still be salvageable? See my post further down on latest developments.

I actually live in Scotland (UK) and if you mean by no fault that it doesn't matter why you divorce, the financial package doesn't change, then yes, Scotland is that. If I file for D under adultery, it just meets a much quicker divorce. The financial situation does not alter.