UPSIDE DOWN - still struggling, trying to detach

[Lost Rabbit]

Im with you on this one Nell, its right to set your boundaries, I dont think your H is cake eating, one pleasant visit doesnt constitute cake eating.

Now with me Gucci might have a point and Im not even competing with an OW just a dozy H lol!

Chin up and see what the weekend brings, you know your H better than anyone and as you said to Cas you have to take all the advice juggle it about and use what works "more of the same"