U are correct that I can't let the X's attitude dictate my attitude. The other day we were able to talk with a feeling of mutual respect. Today I call and you can sense the immediate defensiveness and discontent in the X's voice.
Example.. I call, she answers, I say "hey". She says "yeah?" and it goes from there. It is like I have bothered her and disrupted her time. I just needed to confirm she did get a jacket I left in her mailbox for my daughter and that I will pick up my D tomorrow afternoon.
The WASs have much to work out in their world. Tomorrow is a new day...
