For myself, I'm content to let it slide this weekend and this holiday season. Give MIL time to cool down.
I this is a good idea. You've got enough to contend with given the very-fresh reconciliation/departure of OW without throwing gasoline on FOO flames at this exact moment.
Originally Posted By: Dia
My father also thinks that H should be the one to explain to kidlet if I am not welcome at the HFOO compound for the holidays.
On this, I agree with your dad.
Regarding people's decisions ... that's very noble of you. Don't forget that among those available decisions is your freedom (in my opinion, responsiblity) to let your husband know if it makes you feel sad, hurt, or second-tier if he continues to be all fine (overtly or covertly) with you being excluded in the future.
"Show me a completely smooth operation and I'll show you someone who's covering mistakes. Real boats rock." -- Frank Herbert
