She said she did have deep, caring, committed love for me early but that over the years, the things I did (again, she cannot specify) made her feel like I was not putting the kids and her needs ahead of mine.
WHOA! Time out! She feels that you should put her and the kids ahead of yourself at all times? Haven't we all learned that is the absolute wrong thing to do? It's fine to do that some of the time but really we must put ourselves first to make sure we stay healthy enough to be able to give of ourselves to the people we care for. Does she always put you and the kids ahead of herself?
It's sounding like she might need to get together with Jeff's wife and compare notes! (Jeff is Virtually_Handsome) They sound like twins separated at birth.
Your W is going to have to have a rather large does of the reality of D. She expects you to sit in a loveless M for possibly years because of the market? Hmmm.......doesn't sound right to me.
T19 M15 S19 XH47 M43 bomb12/4/07 PA5/07 S12/26/07 D final 11/17/08 Back together with no defined R 05/2010 confused....to say the least!!!
