Don't expect anything from it, but pray for the best.

Also, I was not suggesting you break off communication with her or make enemies with her. You do have kids with her just like I do. I have let my W know many times I am willing and want to reconcile with her. I just also let her know that OM is not welcomed in anything. She knows the offer is there, but it does not include OM. It is the boundaries I have set and she knows it.

Kevin

Me 36, W 37
M: 08/02/97
D13, D9
1st Bomb 02/08
Reconciled 04/08
2nd Bomb: 09/08
W filed for D 02/04/09
Separated 03/09
D dismissed 06/09/09
Still separated...