Ok, so you've had a little bit of time in the pity party pit. Now it is time to come out and be the strong persong you know you are.
I also spent time being the OW's OW. I thought it would keep that bond going for him and keep us in contact. I had such a great time with him while we were together. He was loving and attentive. And the sex... oh my
Then I would go home and it would be Saturday night and I'm sitting at home and I start wondering what H is doing and with who. (My H does not live with OW) It drove me crazy.
I didn't want to feel bad in between feeling good. And I also thought about what if things ever did really work out. I didn't want our new R to start out that way. I didn't want him to come back just because we have been sharing a bed. I wanted him to come back REALLY. It needs to be a choice to stop with OW and come back.
Seems like it is fence sitting, cake eating.....
Now I am no expert and of course who knows how this will all turn out. All of these things have happened in the last week for me.
