Can I save my marriage?

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Well. The night backfired...:(
I stayed out all day, had lunch plans then coffee plans, then shopping plans. So on my way home at 8:00, he texts me that the boys are feeling better and he is going back to his sis's. So I talk to my oldest on the phone and he complains of a tummy ache! Ya sure they sound wonderful! I told him I disagree and the boys need to be home to completely get over there sicknesses and not around other people, so he gets mad and tells me he is on his way back. So he comes home and puts the boys to bed and tells me he's leaving to go eat cause he's starving. I told him I have plans later(which I didn't), because I don't think its fair that two nights in a row he's gotten to go out and I'm home with the boys when its his turn to be home. Just cause they are staying at our house doesn't mean he can just go when I'm there. That's not fair and once again he is using me! So anyways, I told him If I go, which I wasn't sure of yet, that it wouldn't be till later so he had time to go get some food. He got pissed off and took off. So now what? I try and do a 180 and leave for the day and make plans which is the opposite of me. He used to get so annoyed when he was working and I stayed home all day with the boys cause I used to complain about it a bit. How I was always so bored and he would forever tell me to go do stuff! So finally I did all day, and it backfired. I didn't tell him where I was going or when I was going to be home and he got soooo mad! Now I feel like crap. I hate when he is mad at me...I know it obviously bothered me that I was gone all day and he didn't know where I was or what I was doing, but this is my husband in a nutshell. He gets mad at me for something that I don't feel was even wrong! Its his turn to be with the boys I should be allowed to come and go as I please! Now I'm paying for it. I was looking foward to maybe spending a nice night at home with him. Having some good conversation, watching t.v. But now its all ruined. Guaranteed he is going come home and go straight downstairs and not even talk to me. Last night before he left to go get food he offered to bring me back something. But tonight he just stormed out...I'm so puzzled. Nothing seems to be working. The pit in the bottom of my stomach was gone all day today because I felt like I had some of the power after turning him down last night and now its completely 100% back in action. This sucks.