Newbie with almost WAW - Need Advice

[chatterbug]

Its Plan A time and listen to the fog. But keep your boundaries. Or reread what Rob wrote. Does OM have a W ?

Did you come up with a plan for the next few days... You did state that there is no R talk until OM is out of the picture... Has she done anything on this ? If not then enforce that boundary that you have set up for yourself. Do not slide. Its going to get rather messy now. Funny that. Worst day of your life and then you made it. She is going to come hard at you with anger if you enforce your boundaries. I did not learn about all this until a few weeks after D-day. So use the smart people here to help you through the next few days.