I never knew that HBH. Guess I am going through a cycle of grief... A few steps forward and a few back. I am so glad I got out of the anger stage... How are you countering your depression? I am using exercise, lots of water, friends , this site and some metal music...
Anyways dinner was nice. MIL made all my fav's We did not mention WAS once. It was like a big elephant sitting in the cornor. But we made it. I was there for 3 hours. We just talked about nothing all that time. Which was what the doctor ordered... I did talk about my GAL abit, running and the house. FIL talked about his life as a child. I have learned more about his life the last 3 months than in the previous 10 years. He has really opened up to me on everything.
Went home and introduced my house guest and dog to the new neighbourhood. Having someone in the house the next few weeks is going to help. Its funny listening to him talk in his waywardness everyonce in awhile. He is going to take these few weeks to really think about his EA and then go home to his wife. When they were in the thick of D-day I told him to stop yelling and blaming her for it. I said it was a crock of s*&t. Man up and admit it was you alone who did the EA. No matter what you and your wife did. You stepped out on your own. You own that. I really think it made him stop and think about what he was doing. So hopefully they can get back together. I hope he mentions this to my WAS on sunday when she is here snooping on my GAL and 180's ( I mean getting some additional stuff that she needs )
Anyways not a bad day. Tomorrow night I have a concert... Sat night a party with mutual friends. I hear WAS may attend. So that would most likely make for an interesting evening. I would rather have a GAL evening...
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