Did you feel pretty comfortable that all of "the signs" pointed to H's renewed interest in reconciliation? Or were you just "going out on a limb" by making your overture (referring to your initiating the OW or me talk)?
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I was pretty sure. Not 100%, but pretty sure. I told myself that I wasn't going to just 'assume' anything based on his actions, though. I needed it to be out in the open and explicit.
That said, I did not wake up that morning with a plan to have an R talk, nor did I have a long-term plan that eventually I would have one. The words sort of came out of my mouth a little out of the blue. The timing was right, though.
And if you read really carefully, *he* initiated that R talk by asking me if I felt excluded from his social circle. I merely nudged it a certain direction once it started.
Sorry for the threadjack, GIMA.
Last edited by Dia; 10/23/0902:52 AM.
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