Yes, I think I am the one who initiated it. I'm not sure how he sees it because we haven't talked about it that directly. He was given the opportunity to make an active and informed choice between me and OW - and he made it. So he can't feel browbeaten or pushed around about it because his will and free choice were just as active as mine.

I still think I led, tho.

To recap - I put myself among the offerings available. He made the choice. Eventually, I told him I needed to hear what the choice was.

Last edited by Dia; 10/23/09 02:44 AM.

The trouble with having an open mind is that people put things in it.

My sitch - Divorce Busted!
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