It was through 180s, flirting, what H calls emotional generosity and humbly admitting my mistakes.
As for pushing the issue, I did throwdown about OW, but pretty gently. I said I would wait a little longer, but I wasn't going to wait forever. That if we were going to move forward with full reconciliation, that I expected - and would give - 100%, unshakeable fidelity.
Now, probably H had already made the decision before he slept with me, albeit unconsciously. But as far as having it out, on the table and explicit, it was on p. 109 after a little throwdown.
Last edited by Dia; 10/23/0902:38 AM.
The trouble with having an open mind is that people put things in it.
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