We can't know that, though. The struggling isn't always about sending the 'wrong' message. Sometimes the struggling is about not knowing where our partner is at. Not to mention not know where WE're at.
Do you think she doesn't know where you are with all of this? I mean, step back for a moment - leaving aside what we know here - to her you might look awfully darn content with the roommate arrangement. Ok, except for the bed thing at Disney.
That's a tough one Dia. I don't know what she thinks. I suspect she is happy with my changes and thinks it has been about 6 months and I haven't wavered on my changes. If I've done anything right, it's that I have been consistent with my changes.
If she were convinced D was the only way, I think I would have heard something by now. I don't think she believes our current sitch is healthy.
So, that only leaves two possibilities - that she is unsure or its a green light. And between those last two, I just don't know. NOT having a R talk is consistent with unsure.
