Quote: Forgive me if I am asking something out of line. I am asking because I am in the same situation...
Your H has an OW, and are the two of you still physical?
If so, do you find that this helps keep a bond going for you?
You can ask me pretty much anything here. Not only does he have OW he's been living with her for the last six months, and yes he does call me at least weekly if not more to see if "I'm game" or if I'm still interested and/or if I'm thinking about sex with him.
If I can I take him up on his request as this is the way he feels bonded. Afterwards he's more loving towards me and considerate and it does last for a day or two.
I have no idea what goes on over OW's place, but am pretty sure there's not a lot of physical stuff...but then what do I know.