But somehow we did not connect as I felt we could have. I felt that she was a little disappointed. I was disappointed
I still get this feeling at times. I think even people in the best marriages feel this way at times. Someone correct me if I am wrong.
Originally Posted By: Gynandtonix
Did I do / act right or wrong?
It sounds like you handled it relatively well. As long as she is still seeing OM, I think you need to work on yourself and not concern yourself too much with the R. You are allowing her to cake-eat if you allow her to have OM and maintain some assemblence of a family. You need to force her to make a choice between the 2 of you.
As for the 'I have no time to do anything.' statement. I think just a simple nod to show you are listening and understand is fine.
Continue to be a great dad. This is very attractive and it will make you feel better. You need to GAL for your health (both mental and physical).
There are good signs here. She does contact you, she is interested in your life. She still wants to be a part of it. You need to show her that you have to much respect for yourself to allow her to share you with OM. Read what Robx, Puppy, Kett, & Coach wrote me. They said it a whole lot better than I can.
