We can't know that, though. The struggling isn't always about sending the 'wrong' message. Sometimes the struggling is about not knowing where our partner is at. Not to mention not know where WE're at.
Do you think she doesn't know where you are with all of this? I mean, step back for a moment - leaving aside what we know here - to her you might look awfully darn content with the roommate arrangement. Ok, except for the bed thing at Disney.
Last edited by Dia; 10/23/0901:50 AM.
The trouble with having an open mind is that people put things in it.
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