Stronger, you are exactly right. Since the big threats, I left the house, shut off all communication, spent the night at a friends and refused to talk.
Guess who called me 24hrs. later CALMLY TALKING, WANTING TO RESOLVE THINGS BETWEEN THE TWO OF US, EVEN IN THERAPY, AND OWNING UP TO HOW PARANOID HE'S BEEN.
He has a long way to go, but I'm finally standing up to him this has shown results. THANK GOD. It's going to be a tough battle.
My first step is - stay away from him, and only talk about this stuff in therapy. He came up with the idea today, I didn't ask him. So I"m going to jump on it and stay away. No more clinging and waiting around. I have busy plans with my son and my friends this weekend.
