So, do I defuse any anxiety she may have over anniversary by telling her what I lined up? Just a nice dinner. And I will pick up some things for her tomorrow for her cake decorating. Nothing over the top.
What did your W prefer during the good times? Did she like it when you took control and planned dinners? Or did she prefer to have input? Has her behavior changed dramatically on this point? Or is she still acting the same in this department?
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I think she likes it when I plan it. I haven't seen any changes in her regarding this.