I spoke briefly to my IC this evening. She told me that the MC is probably not going to bring up the deeper topics unless I do because the MC will risk H walking out if he does. I'm going to to take the lead next time, even if it does piss H off. So what else is new? I think I want to print out some of my old posts and put them together into something comprehensive that I can refer to.
H hasn't given me any feedback about MC sessions. He shows up and that's it. I'm not sure that doing the bare minimum counts for a whole lot. If he's not going to take it to heart, why is he bothering to go? (It was a NUT for me. He recognized it as a requirement for working on this marriage, but he needs to put some extra effort in) I thought I would try asking to see what he thought of the last session. Since it was a non-confrontational one for him, he might be more willing to say something. I got the brunt of that session. Actually, it seems like I'm getting the brunt in most of them. Try again next week- with my notes.
I think I want to print out some of my old posts and put them together into something comprehensive that I can refer to.
