Emailed my SIL (married to H's bro) about some tickets I'm getting from her and SIL said that she's been out was North celebrating her Bday. I emailed back and said H was north also this weekend did you run into him. She emailed back and said she did see H and H took SIL out to eat for SIL's birthday. Now SIL didn't say if OW was with so I emailed back and ask if OW was with him but SIL hasn't responded yet. We were going back and forth until that question.
Don't know how I feel either, kind of sad that H took OW to meet his bro and SIL and that H couldn't even share that with me. And now I'm sure SIL is afraid to email me back with the answer I'm dreading. H didn't say he was going with OW, but I assumed he was so the only thing that will make assume otherwise is if SIL emails back that OW wasn't there.
I'm really confused today, especially with what I thought were babysteps from H yesterday or maybe I was interpreting them wrong, meaning his saying "even after I've been with OW the last six months" maybe he was pushing me to dump him.
then anything else.
