For those with a WAS...How do you cope?

[LuLu]

If you want to have sex then do it. If you don't just say no. Don't explain why (that was my mistake- I would get so wordy), just say nope, not interested or something along those lines.

I would just give him a heads up before you leave saying that you will be calling to speak to dd daily. When you do call, keep it short and don't volunteer any info. You are busy having fun, no time to chat with H. Got to go. Thanks for letting me talk to DD... buh bye.