Quote: tomorrow it could all go south again, but what babysteps he made today. I am worried that I will say the wrong thing and send him into an outswing for awhile, but they don't seem last as long
Now you sound like me! My H called and talked to D, then I asked to talk to him. Good things are happening, baby steps last night! Then this morning, I start letting the doubts come back, but I chatted with kitti and she set me straight. Yes it could all go south, but isn't wonderful to get high on the feeling that our H's are making wonderful steps in coming back! Even if they take 2 steps forward and one step back, they are moving forward! So lets look for the positives. Take it slow, encourage more of the good behavior that he gives you!
Quote: The sex thing Deb, I think they miss it and remember
Gosh, I hope so, I sure miss the bond we had! And I'm hoping our H's do to! I remembering it being pretty darn good! When they say in the Bible; "and the 2 shall become one" that's how I felt when we made love!
When they said, "What God has put together, let no man tear asunder" I agree to that too! And that's why I'm here, I'm not giving up because I know we still love each other. God will never bless the A they are having with the OP! Heh, I'm on God's side!
