WAS seeing reality?

[ClingingToHope]

You know what I can't stand, the WAS chipper phone voice. I'm getting that, and the jokey text responses. Last night she told me two of my friends were mean to her last Saturday when she was out at a bar, but two of my other friends were nice.

I didn't know what to say. I can't control my friends. I never told anyone to be mean to her. My friends care about me and don't like I'm losing my family because she's lost her "feelings" towards me.

The friendship thing is really, really hard. Maybe once I have found someone else -- or at least get used to the fact she ripped my family from me -- I can be friends. Right now, I just respond as best I can.

The closer we get to actual D the more I believe it will be a contentious affair. She's still leaning on me for all the logistical stuff. There's going to have be some consideration for that. I'm paying on all this debt she ran up before I moved out. I'm paying on a car after having paid hers off last year. We gutted my IRA to finish the basement. She's sitting on a nice fat lump sum pension payment.

I'm in a bad mood today. I don't know if my story will help you.