So H is still in contact with ex-OW. She's been warned that her phantom text to me will result in me giving my phone to the police to investigate where they are coming from. So that has stopped. But now she's posting on his FB page which she hasn't done in months really and I think in an attempt to piss me off. No biggie. It sort of makes me laugh because I'm pretty sure her reasons for keeping touch with H and doing things like that are to piss me off. Long story, she blames me for her old boyfriend dumping her. He called me and wanted to warn me about my H talking to his "soon to be ex-girlfriend" because he thought it was inappropriate. Turns out she told old bf not to worry about her talking to my H because "he's married and very happy with his wife and child." Actually at that time we were separated and he was no longer living here. I didn't know she had lied to old boyfriend and told him as much and he went ballistic and put all of her stuff in trash bags on the lawn. She blames me for this.
Any-hoo. I've told H I would like him to contact me throughout the day, for no reason and not every second but once maybe three times via calls or texts. He's not really trying this much with me but he's doing it with her. H is no longer worth a phone call from her but they do text frequently and daily.
My question is this: can we really fix anything when he's giving exactly what I want to someone else who's miles away and doesn't even think he's worth a phone call? Who is by the way, engaged to someone else? Obviously H wants to contact her but not me. I know the texts are pretty stupid, stuff you could post online for the whole world to read they are so blah, but still, she's getting the stupid fun contact and I'm not.
I really don't know why I'm doing this anymore but I wanted opinions on this.
