Chilly Sorry to hear about your sitch. There are many similarities in your sitch and mine, not to mention countless others.
The first thing everyone is going to tell you is to detach and gal. Both pretty much the hardest things to do in the world if you have love for her still.
I still have not detached and its been 4 months for me. However, after the EA, it has become easier to detach.
I guess the best way to play this till you can detach is to act mysterious. You don't have to go on dates but she doesnt have to know that. You can wear nice clothes and cologne but she doesn't have to know why. Get the drift?
Also, believe it or not in the next couple of weeks you will shed a lot of weight even if u don't want to. The anxiety of this will curb your appetite as it did me. So keep working out and loosing weight. Show her what she will be missing.
The grass is always greener on the other side till the neighbors dog shits in it. Be the dog.
