Can I save my marriage?

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Well Trent, as far as moving back in, I have no hope. Like I said he is really only here to see the boys while they are sick. Tonight is night two. It will be interesting. I think a lot of it is the fact that he has had no affection in the past month he's been away, and just being in our home makes him want it. Which really sucks, cause its not me, its just the feeling of affection that he craves. I believe that. Do you advise me to stay away from the house as much as possible? I feel like if I'm here he expects me to bend over backwards for him, cook him lunch, get him a drink if he's on the couch...etc. Then I fall into the habit of our old ways and do it. I think then come sunday when he leaves that I will be faced with the heartbreak I experienced 3 weeks ago when he walked out? Also do you think I should talk to him about the mixed signals (backrub offer, sleeping in my bed offer)? Or just leave it..? Cause today as I was gettting ready to go for lunch with a friend, he continued to talk about next week and the week after childcare discussions, and how we will go about things. I hate this! As soon as he asked me to sleep in our bed and offered me that backrub my tummy fluttered and I had the best feeling I've had in 3 weeks! I finally started to believe that this is his way of reaching out. But I know my husband, and I know the affection he craves and it sucks cause I have to deal with the meaningless comments. My mind is ready to explode! I have no plans tonight and cannot find anything to do. He and the kids will be here. Do you advise me maybe to be here too, and show him some change I've made? Maybe it will give me a chance aside from our 2 second drop off with our children? Ugh! I over analyze everything! Need to work on that...