But, here's a question. If she's nervouse about it, is that an indication she's not comfortable moving closer? If she were ok with it, then why would she be nervouse about our anniversary?
Is it that she's still on the fence? Wants to believe my changes are real, but just hasn't bought in yet?
And if that is the case, then should I just cool it longer?
It just seems to me that if she wanted to move our R along, she might be a little nervouse, but would not be hesitant to speak to me about our anniversary - neither one of us has mentioned it.
I'm not nervous or worried. Just posing some questions.
There's no way to tell, really. It's possible she's mulling things over w/o feeling one way or the other about it. You're going to have to play it by ear.
The trouble with having an open mind is that people put things in it.
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So, do I defuse any anxiety she may have over anniversary by telling her what I lined up? Just a nice dinner. And I will pick up some things for her tomorrow for her cake decorating. Nothing over the top.
She may be withdrawing a bit because the anniversary is a reminder that the initial deadline she set (6 months) has passed. She may just be confused and conflicted.
Did you pick up any signals from her on the 6 month anniversary of the bomb? I didn't notice anything about that on your thread. This would be a similar type of situation.
She may be withdrawing a bit because the anniversary is a reminder that the initial deadline she set (6 months) has passed. She may just be confused and conflicted.
Did you pick up any signals from her on the 6 month anniversary of the bomb? I didn't notice anything about that on your thread. This would be a similar type of situation.
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Nothing negative at all.
She just got home from her cake class. Seems to be in a good mood. Talkative.
