Seven months is such a cute age, too!. Sometimes people do think I'm son's grandmother, but I make sure they know I'm his mom!!
Just got off the phone with H. We talk about things, wants to know how PW and DW are doing? I said she wants to try but he's really mean to her lately. H says you mean just I am to you? And then brings up the conversation of me telling him not come back, that he's not welcome anymore. I said IF HE WAS GOING TO CALL ME NAMES. THEN H SAYS I didn't add that part when I told him to leave and not come back? I said it, I said it, you all believe me don't you? Why doesn't he believe me that I said "if he was going to call me names"to not come back. H doesn't even remember what name it was that he called, me he said "stupid or something" I said A$$**** The he tells me again I didn't say the part about calling me names so I just laughed. I don't want to argue about it.
Then comes the Monday morning question: what are we doing here? I say what do you mean? What are we doing, is this marriage saveable he asks me. I said yes it is...he says even after I've been living with her for six months?....I say yes, she's not the problem. He then said what is? I said I have to go I'm at work and it's really hard to talk right now. It is sooo quiet in here right now everybody can hear every word I'm saying....which is too bad becuase I think this conversation might have been going somewhere with H.
Anybody want to read between the lines of his question above?
To me, it meant he wants to come back and make it work, but is worried about me accepting him back after being with OW for six months.
So now what do I do? I don't know that he'll bring up the conversation again, so do I just continue to db?
I'm kind of feeling more positives than negatives about his question???
