xW really got me in a very agitated state. I told her that I had kept her informed all along of this event -- she knew when I knew, but because I did not put it in writing she said it didn't happen. Thus I suck at communication. So I told her the conversation was effectively over, because verbal don't work with her -- she can put anythign wants to say to me in writing, and I'm not going to ever waste my breath with her anymore.
Verbal doesn't work with her! She either doesn't listen, twists what you say, is abusive, etc. You need to do what I do and just email re: the kids. Plus, if she gets abusive in an email you can and should print it out for the PC I'm thinking.
Last time X called me I hung up on him. I have never ever done that before, and would never, but I have told him over a dozen times just email, and I'm not going to waste my breath or time on that anymore.
