I am never coming back !!!!!!!!

[K4D]

I would say that is a huge sign that he is going to church again. That is wonderful.

My W is no longer attending church and hasn't for many months. I think she has gone 2 or 3 times this past year. I wonder if she feels like she doesn't belong there because of OM. I don't know. I might have pushed her out of church as well which I regret if I did by pointing out her hypocracy. That was very stupid of me looking back and very judgemental as none of us are saints.

I am glad you get lifted up when you get discouraged and feel like giving up. I can relate to those feelings all to well. I stand for my M, but sometimes the thought of calling it off and walking away enters my mind. Then when it does, certain verses come to mind and I hop back on my stand.

Whatever you do, don't give up on God to change his heart. I think what you are seeing really is God working on him. Just remember like I have to, His timing and understanding is not our timing and understanding.

Kevin