Well, S11's fever was up to 103.1 yesterday, so he didn't play any soccer. His team won the tournament anyway. The story I got third-hand was that the final was 0-0, then two 5 minute overtimes, then 5-5 in a shootout, then single shootouts until then won on the seventh one. Probably not good for the heart to have been there! Oh, he looked awful last night when I saw him.
I think I may not be dating anymore. The woman that I was dating saw that I was logged onto Match occasionally. I told her I had only contacted one person (BobbiJo), who was a friend that I was not going to be going out with. But she thinks that I am lying to her, and seeing someone else. I can't apologize for what I didn't do, so I apologized for what I did do, and left the ball in her court. I don't know if I will hear from her again or not. I think she may have some deep running wounds, but I can't fix that. I'm not sure she was shat I was looking for in the long term, but I did enjoy spending time with her, so I am a little upset. Maybe mostly by the fact that she thinks I lied to her. But, I can't fix that either. So, life goes on!
Yeah, she had to log on, too. My guess is she started to log on to see if I had been logged on. I noticed yesterday that I couldn't see her profile, so I couldn't tell if she had been logged on. I was on every day or two, just looking around. But I hadn't contacted anyone. Other than you! What's funny is that a lot of times I just logged on to read her profile again.... kind of a refresher course.
Saturday night she was at home taking care of her son, who had had a medication change. I live about 20 minutes outside of Tucson, so when I go to Tucson, I say I am going to town, and when I go home, I am leaving town. Anyway, I texted her after I went shopping at Target to see if she was doing anything. She told me she was watching her son. I asked her to call later, if she could, and I went and got something to eat. When I was done I texted again and asked if she needed anything. She said, "no", so I said "Ok. I am headed out of town then". She took that to mean going out of town, like a trip or something. Then yesterday evening I called her, and she asked about my trip? I didn't have any idea what she was talking about. I finallt figured it out, and explained, but by then she was pretty much convinced I was lying about everything, and was contacting other women on match, and seeing them. I am guessing she has been seriously cheated on before (I know there was some, but not the whole story).
In the end, it might be just as well. If she is that willing to believe the worst, how could a long term thing work? There has to be some degree of trust, and I don't think she has it. And if she had once said that she would prefer me not log onto Match, I wouldn't have.
Like I said, the worst part is that she really believes I lied to her. That stings.
Yeah. I told her that I would not be on Match at all for the next week or two. And I won't. I was looking at new profiles, but no winks or emails. I will give her a chance to cool off. But, I don't think the odds are high. The ball is totally in her court.
My friend went out with a lady and afterwards she started making some demands that if he was ever going to date her again that he cant be checking out any others on match.com. That was a tell tale sign for him and he never talked to her again.
One does not need to log on to see the last time another person was on line. It just seems to me that she is keeping tabs on you a bit too close at such an early point of dating. And....
how come you just looked at Bobbi Jo's profile and not mine??!!?? Maybe I will give you a wink Jeff.....
Sorry if I indirectly messed anything up...