Well, here is my 2 cents: I have learned one great lesson. Some people you can not talk to about R with your H. When they ask, I say "I'm doing great". If they ask about H I change the subject. Frankly; it is none of their business!
Come here and talk about your R, because here we understand and you will get the kind of support you need. My H has an OW. Don't let it bother you. Think of her as a sports car or some toy. When our H get bored with it, the thing will mean nothing!
Deb Had a great weekend, chatted with 3 of my friends here from the DB BB! And today I'm working on a flannel quilt, making 2 Apple pies, making apple butter, doing laundry! It's a fun, great day. Also went golfing Sat. with friends and D!