The one sign I have had is not towards me at all.....once in a while I will get back a text i sent him regarding a bad dream or something about our dogs he has with him.... The only other thing is a big one in my eyes.. While we were married he never attended church only on special occassions such as baptism's or christmas,he always was the one to work on most weekends, as he worked in retail....but since I have been praying, mostly for his true repentance and making Jesus his saviour .....HE HAS BEEN ATTENDING CHURCH ALL THE TIME, even if it is with the O/W, to me that is a big thing. God is working on him, I may not see anything on my behalf but the holy spirit is doing something with him. He is a handy man at heart, he worked on the church he is attending small remodel job, got paid made a little money....when it was all finished the pastor asked him to say a few words on the church....how it was the body of christ.....not just the building but us as christians we are the body of christ..... I almost fell over my chair when our daughter told me of that......my husband behind a pulpit saying scripture from the bible. All my friends call him a hypocrite because he is sinning with this o/w, but church is not just for people who have christ in their life BUT FOR ALL SINNERS. I have faith that one day the strongholds will be broken.....sometimes I do get discouraged but he lifts me up everytime I feel like giving up... My husband started his MLC 01/07